Join us for a lively evening with award-winning radio journalist, author, teacher, community activist, and former TV reporter Jo Giese as she shares Never Sit If You Can Dance: Lessons From My Mother. At a turbulent time in America, when personal connections are fleeting and shared values rare, Giese offers uplifting lessons in old-fashioned civility in her memoir. A tender, pithy, and radiant tribute - the lessons are wisdom from a mother of the 20th century for a daughter in the 21st century.
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Babe was no goodie two-shoes: she drank, danced, and stayed up very late. She favored colorful clothes, liked giving parties, adored her husband, and always told her daughter, "Never sit if you can dance." When readers finish this book, they'll want to give their mother a hug and dance into Mother's Day and beyond.
Born Gladys, nicknamed Babe, and thriving until she was almost ninety-eight, Giese's mother is drawn through careful memories. Fragments of everyday life create a loose timeline pinned with images. Giese's eye for detail, because of which observations flower toward greater kinds of meaning, proves noteworthy. A green, linoleum dance floor recalls Babe and her husband's passion for hosting parties in the 1950s; an orange mandarin collar jacket, handed down to Giese, signals the bold decision to choose what's cheerful over easier invisibility. Flowers offer a reminder of connectedness.
Whether they are lighthearted, serious, or elegiac, topics are addressed with graceful candor. The pieces add up to a perspective that values relationships without needing to speak about them, and in which gestures become their own language. In "The Good Goodbye," accompanying guests to the curb is presented as an act of thankfulness; the essay encourages thoughtfulness toward loved ones. "Never Show Up Empty-Handed" is a foray into kindness of the sort that never grows old. Other advice derives wisdom from trivial places, as in "Don't Be Drab!," a fun, sartorial essay on color with a reminder that everyone is worthy of variety.
A few essays address Babe's experiences as a midcentury housewife, from which Giese, a self-proclaimed feminist, draws insight, despite having once thought that such experiences couldn't speak to her. They include "Maybe We All Need Someone Waiting for Us in the Parking Lot," in which embroidering while waiting in the car is not a passive act, but a loving gesture of support.
Essays vary between forms of entertainment and self help vehicles. Most of their lessons come down to good manners. More than just nostalgic, they're reminders to live with conviction and joy that acknowledge life is fragile. "Go! While You Can," an exhortation to travel and accept spontaneous journeys, especially highlights this.
Babe's infectious enthusiasm comes through in anecdote after anecdote, though she's seldom placed on a pedestal. She emerges as a humane person who was sometimes shortsighted, as when she failed to offer her children praise. Imperfections in parenting are presented with forgiving hindsight. Even through its tough moments, including Babe's miscarriages and death in hospice, the book is an upbeat exploration of the little things that make people who they are.
More about Jo Giese
Jo Giese is an award-wining radio journalist, author, teacher, community activist, and former TV reporter. As a special correspondent, she was part of the Peabody Award-winning team at Marketplace, the most popular business program in America. She has contributed to Ira Glass' This American Life and is author of A Woman's Path (St. Martin's Press), and The Good Food Compendium (Doubleday). An intrepid and enthusiastic world traveler, she has visited 50 plus countries. She lives in Southern California and Bozeman, Montana, with her husband, Ed Warren.
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